If you’re swapping your ‘hot girl summer’ for a ‘Nancy Meyers summer,’ you’ll love the cozy town of Sonoma for your bachelorette getaway. Located about an hour from San Francisco, the charming town of Sonoma offers picturesque wineries, Michelin-rated dining, luxurious spas, and idyllic vacation homes.
Sonoma County offers stays from historic farmhouses and on-site vineyards to sleek modern homes with private poolside lounging. These Sonoma bachelorette vacation homes and activities will have the girlies clinking glasses of crisp white wine as this trip makes it out of the group chat.
1. The Dalya Estate
Situated in Sonoma’s west county, The Dalya Estate offers a private, six-acre property with two guest homes alongside its namesake Pinot vineyards. The Vineyard House, a modern yet quaint restored Craftsman-style home, offers a front-row seat to the vineyards, outdoor dining area, and 60-foot lap pool.
The Guest Cottage, a cozy farmhouse renovated to maintain its original charm, sits adjacent to the main house with its own wrap-around porch and “secret garden.” Together, the two homes accommodate up to 12 people throughout its seven bedrooms and four-and-a-half bathrooms.
Where to eat
Just 15 minutes from Dalya, The Barlow is Sebastopol’s premier market. Offering nearly two dozen eateries, The Barlow’s restaurants offer farm-to-table brunch, a non-alcoholic bottle shop, breweries, cideries, and Sonoma’s renowned Kosta Browne winery and tasting room.
Nearby, visit Michelin-rated restaurants like Ramen Gaijin, Khom Loi, and Farmhouse Inn and Restaurant. Gather the girlies for what many diners consider a “flawless” dining experience at Campanella, or keep it casual at HopMonk Tavern’s brewpub and beer garden.
Where to sip
As mentioned, Dalya sits just minutes from Kosta Browne, which serves its highly regarded Sonoma County Pinot Noir and Chardonnay. Up the road, Merry Edwards offers a vineyard-front private tasting of its famed Russian River Valley Sauvignon Blanc, among other varietals.
Courtesy Kosta Browne
For a slightly more rustic and European feel, head to Marimar Estates. Serving its Spanish varietals like Albariño and Tempranillo, the Catalan-style winery offers a picturesque escape among the vineyards with private tastings, tours, and tapas pairings.
Bachelorette spa day in Sonoma
Regardless of how you choose to unwind, a spa day is necessary for a Sonoma bachelorette party. Choose to have your masseuse come to you with Wine Country Mobile Spa, and travel won’t interrupt your relaxation.
For a full spa experience, your group can venture to Bliss Organic Day Spa’s self-care sanctuary. Here, you’ll unwind in a sauna, steam room, or private bathtub before or after your spa services. Craving something different? Check out Himalayan Salt Room and Day Spa for salt therapy, foot scrubs, facials, and aromatherapy.
2. Sonoma Serenity
This exquisite Glen Ellen estate combines sophistication with modern home vibes. Located on the outskirts of Sonoma proper, Glen Ellen is close to B.R. Cohn, Jack London State Park, and Fetters Hot Springs.
But, before you head out, you’ll want to check out all the amenities at the sprawling Sonoma Serenity. Situated above the Sonoma Valley across 10 wooded acres, your vacation home features a lap pool, lush greenery, a game room, outdoor showers, and nearby hiking, all surrounded by vineyards, trees, and a lake.
Where to eat
Start at the highly acclaimed, Michelin-recommended Glen Ellen Star for a memorable dining experience. You’ll want to explore every inch of its California cuisine-style offerings!
Courtesy Glen Ellen Star
For a fancy breakfast treat, visit Les Pascals. This patisserie and boulangerie offers classic French pastries, breads, and small dishes. A short 10-minute drive from Sonoma Serenity, The Mill at Glen Ellen offers a rustic yet cultivated lunch and dinner adventure in a historic setting with ties to Jack London.
Where to sip
When staying at Sonoma Serenity, you’ll want to pack up your bachelorette crew and head to some of these acclaimed wineries and tasting rooms. Popular Benziger Family Winery sits just minutes from your vacation villa outside Jack London State Park. Their Sonoma Mountain ranch estate offers immersive winery tours, curated tastings, and award-winning experiences.
Courtesy Benziger Family Winery
After dining at The Mill at Glen Ellen, pop over to neighboring Schermeister Winery located in Jack London Village. Pouring limited-production varietals like Pinot Noir, Schermeister offers a curated experience both in the tasting room and out. Opt for a private tasting experience, where the tasting room comes to you!
Outdoor adventure in Glen Ellen
Aside from Glen Ellen’s many wineries and restaurants, there are many ways to explore this charming Sonoma Valley town. Enjoy Sonoma County’s stunning weather at a nearby park and let Picnic Potential host your curated pop-up picnic experience.
Courtesy of California State Parks, 2025
Venture into the forested hills of the Valley of the Moon and soak in the hot springs at Morton’s while lounging and basking in the Sonoma sunshine. For a deeper connection with nature, saddle up for a group trail ride through the valley with Triple Creek Horse Outfit and end your day with dinner at your vacation home. Leave the planning up to Booker & Butler, an expert Sonoma concierge.
3. Villas at Sonoma
Want to host your bachelorette trip in the heart of Sonoma? Just two miles from Sonoma Plaza, Villas at Sonoma offers a luxurious stay on a wooded three-acre property. Get the feel of privacy with close proximity to town! Start your mornings with a coffee on the patio and a dip in the pool or hot tub.
Allow a private chef to fix a wine country feast in the gourmet kitchen, or visit some of the best restaurants in downtown Sonoma. Relax under the covered back patio with a glass of wine, celebrating the upcoming nuptials.
Where to eat
Villas at Sonoma is located in the heart of Sonoma, near some of the best restaurants in the world. From renowned Girl and the Fig to the gorgeously aesthetic El Dorado Kitchen, you’ll find cuisine that’s definitely something to write home about. Not to mention, these dining destinations offer some of the best brunch in Sonoma.
For a Michelin experience, visit nearby spots like Valley, Cafe la Haye, and El Molino Central. If you plan to visit Napa Valley, Auberge de Soleil is a must-visit nearly any time of day, but certainly for a fancy bachelorette brunch.
Where to sip
What’s great about staying in Sonoma proper is the walkability to just about anything. Of course, it’s within walking distance to the historic Sonoma Plaza, but you’ll also find many winery tasting rooms along the way. One of Sonoma’s oldest wineries, Sebastiani Vineyards and Winery, offers tastings and wine purchases in their Sonoma Plaza boutique location.
If you’re seeking a full day of wine tasting, vineyard exploring, and curated lunches with the convenience of a chauffeur, there’s no better experience than Bohemian Highway Tours. Get behind-the-scenes access to winemakers, vineyards, and library pours between farm-to-table lunches and private dining. Guests of Villas at Sonoma receive exclusive pricing on this all-inclusive wine tasting experience.
Bachelorette activities in Sonoma
If you’re coming to Sonoma for the bubbly, we’ve got you! SIGH Champagne Bar, located in Sonoma Plaza, offers a private champagne lounge for the ultimate sparkling experience.
Just outside of town, Domaine Carneros is one of the best places for sparkling wines inside (and outside!) of its landmark winery and chateau. You’ll want to secure reservations for this bucketlist-style destination serving méthode traditionnelle. Relax along their estate terrace and take in the sprawling views of Sonoma Valley.
Turn your Sonoma bachelorette getaway into a cast trip straight out of Real Housewives and bring in private yoga lessons, ride the Sonoma Valley Wine Trolley, or take a scavenger hunt through Sonoma Scavenger. Connect with our partner, Booker & Butler, and let them arrange your dream Sonoma bachelorette itinerary!